Hmm. Quite sad if am honest but you may be surprised at the number of people ho have asked this question. As a rhetoric or real direct question needing an honest answer. And if you have asked this question as some point, Awww... Well, the truth is everyone deserves love. Yeah. Everyone. And if you go to an extreme to ask, "How about murderers and the sorts?". Well am sure they have loved ones too! No matter how bad a person is, there might still be that someone who cares about them. Even just the one.
Asking this question could suggest you just left a relationship and the terms of break-up wasn't amicable to say the least. It wasn't your choice if you know what I mean. More like the carpet was pulled from under your feet. That feeling. The bitter taste. The heart ache. The trauma. The feeling that your world has come to an end. The need to blame yourself for what happened.
The first mistake one makes in this situation 'self-blame'. Findng a reason to what happened and concluding after thinking it through that i was most definitely your fault. Big mistake. Why? There were two people in the relationship and regardless of what you think you did wrong to cause this unfortunate predicament, never heap the guilt on your humble self. At least not in that magnitude.
To be continued...
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