Does he love me? If only you could tell! Part 2

Well as promised here it is. The sequel.

Some may say it's not rocket science. If he loves you then you would know. Well Yes and No. It's not rocket yes, agreed. But if she knew for sure she wouldn't ask the question. I heard someone once say that people would believe as long as it is a compliment. Everyone likes to be complimented. It's probably more of a big deal if you are a lady.  I say so because ladies need to be complimented more than the gentlemen. A gentleman receiving a compliment about his looks from any gender may interpret it as a flirt straightaway. On the other hand, different story for a lady. Only excessive compliments could be interpreted as a flirt. ' You look nice today' might just make a lady smile without her feeling that she is being 'hit'on. She just feels like someone noticed her 'effort' to look nice.  If anything, women appreciate admirers.

Now, imagine someone in a relationship or (married even), and you expect to achieve these compliments, a show of admiration and then, nothing. Worse still if you received them in past and at some point it diminishes, then stopped. Well that is not a good position to be in.

There could be a possibility, a high possibility that this just an act of negligence More like complacency. when you have been in a relationship FOR A WHILE, there seems to be a laid back attitude with regards to showing or expressing affection for both parties.

If you read this and you are guilty of this, then it's time to make amends. when you love someone, you need to make it count, you need to tell them. Always. You need to show them . Always.
Being in love should not be hard. If it is then something is wrong. Let's live and learn. Your thoughts...