Why Am I Single: What is wrong with me?

This would be a difficult question to answer without knowing you personally. Nothing is wrong with you. Nothing. Forget what anyone says or how you have been treated in the past. Most times reason for being single may have nothing to do with you as a person. This is of course on the assumption that you do not have a bad attitude or demeanour! :)

Sometimes the main reason why you are single could be that you haven't met that guy/girl who truly deserves you. Sounds cheesy but that's probably true.  For younger people, and by younger, I am referring to probably age 30 and below, there are different rules. The reason for this grouping is simple. It feels different from this age going forward when you are single as a lady. I am sure some people would agree. Worse, if you have never had a serious relationship or not even had one! (hope not).

So if you find yourself in this dilemma and you are genuinely concerned  (talking to the ladies now), then read on...

For younger people, do not fret or begin to think this is abnormal. Being in a relationship for both a guy and a girl requires commitment. Imagine that now you worry about yourself. You will worry for two when you have a relationship. Is he/she ok? Have they had lunch at all? why hasn't he/she called? I hope they got home safely... things like that. It may sound simple but trust me its not. You will know its not when you are in a relationship. 

The easiest way to get into a relationship is simple. Social interaction. This has nothing to do with social media. It could help. But it's difficult to gauge a person's personality just by interaction over technology. Go out more. Make friends. Interact. Smile. Meet people. Go to functions that interest you. The gym. a social club. church. parties (civil and appropriate). gatherings where you can meet and interact with new and different people.The more of this you do, the higher a chance you have of meeting someone you share an attraction with.

For older people, same advice but more. Please listen to this. There is no hurry in finding a partner.  For the ladies, there is always the tendency to feel you are on a 'race against time'. This  IS NOT true. Would you rather get a partner (or get married) NOW with the WRONG person or wait and meet the partner of your dreams down the line? Exactly. 

Also, from a experience, people are attracted to confident (not cocky) individuals, who are  happy with themselves and comfortable with their life and situation. I will explain. Two ladies at a party. Both single. One looks moody and grumpy not contributing much to conversations.  One is bright and bubbly (not loud), smiling and contributing intelligently to conversations. Who do you think will end up with a date. Simple. Point is regardless of your situation, don't wear it on your face! We all have problems. We all do. Billionaires inclusive. Maybe not in the scale or context you understand.

So go on. Be your best. Smile. You will get what you deserve my lovely. :)