So after 5 years of indecision and dilemma of what to blog about, it all starts now. Today. Blogging. Yes.
Why you may ask. Money? Fame? Fortune? Boredom?
As much as I would like to answer yes to all of the above, (believe me I really do!), I realize it wouldn't matter which answer I gave. Do people really blog for the above reasons? Well I hope not.
But seriously, anyone can blog and motivated by a thousand and one reasons. Some to keep a journal, others to express themselves and some to showcase their inner passion for writing or journalism.
So what's MY reason? Well it's not any of the above reasons and it's not boredom! Well believe it or not I had an epiphany of some sort and turns out I can fix marriage and relationship problems!
Hmm. before you react... PLEASE just stick around and let me explain. It may be worth your while :)
I know this may sound strange and quite a bold claim to make but hear me out.... Got time? Ok so here goes...
I have in the past 5 or so years unwittingly fixed some friends' relationships and given soothing therapy to some seeking a shoulder to moan on. LIKE I SAID, unwittingly!
It started off as 'water cooler' type conversations in the workplace kitchen to varied one to one discussions at lunchtimes! Well apparently everyone including beneficiaries of the 'the free therapy' knew i was the person to talk to for all sorts of relationship problems (apart from me of course!). Weird! Sort of being a magician and not knowing.
Well even uptil this very moment I still don't understand it or feel I can do this or that I do actually possess counselling or therapeutic skills
You know the irony is that (as I was informed) the advice and thoughts; the counselling were free flowing from my lips even at times when i were single! Or maybe it is the fact that I sometimes talk too much. Could that be it? You be judge. Be gentle though. :)
Well like I was saying, I got asked one day. How do you know these things? I was taken by surprise at the quzzing? I was short of words. I promptly replied... what things? Well you seem to have answers to everything, they countinued. At this point i knew i had to come up with an explanation without sounding immodest. My answer was simple. I just place my self in the person's shoes... I said. What would I do given so and so situation. If my reply works then it turns out i had the answer! Simple.
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